Posted in The Lessons

The “Ex”

All I want is nothing more
To hear you knocking at my door
‘Cause if I could see your face once more
I could die a happy man I’m sure

When you said your last goodbye
I died a little bit inside
I lay in tears in bed all night
Alone without you by my side

But if you loved me
Why’d you leave me?
Take my body
Take my body
All I want is,
And all I need is
To find somebody.
I’ll find somebody like you…

Oh oh…

So you brought out the best of me,
A part of me I’ve never seen.
You took my soul and wiped it clean.
Our love was made for movie screens.

But if you loved me
Why’d you leave me?
Take my body,
Take my body.
All I want is,
And all I need is
To find somebody.
I’ll find somebody.

Oh…

If you loved me
Why’d you leave me?
Take my body,
Take my body.
All I want is,
And all I need is
To find somebody.
I’ll find somebody like you…

Oh…

[All I Want by Kodaline]

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An ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is a part of our past. Our past with them, either it was full of happiness or sadness, is still something precious. It doesn’t necessarily mean that the ex is still precious at the moment, but one thing for sure: the memories are worth keeping.

I believe that most of all had that one ex who torn our heart aparts real hard more than others when we broke up.
It was more than a sadness: it was a torture.
Well, breaking up was never a pleasure…
But keep in mind! Breaking up always came with a reason.
Either you were the one holding on the reason or your ex was.
So… You knew what would happen if the breaking up didn’t happen.

What about making up with the ex?
Back to be together as a couple, as a lover…
Is it a bad thing or a good one?

Well… You can never say whether it’s good or bad.
You know the risks, and it’s good, because you are aware of anticipation – how to make the things go well and how to make it go south.
You might go back to the bad situation which made you break up at the first place, and it’s bad. But again, you should’ve anticipated it from happening. And both of you should’ve learned from your past mistakes to fix it hand in hand or prevent it from happening.

What if being back with your ex didn’t give you any good?
You know the answer.
It’s either closing the book of your stories for real or keeping what you call relationship even though it hurts you more and more everyday – just throw away all your expectation to see him/her change into how you want him/her to be.

One thing to hold on tight: you are responsible of your own happiness.
If you are not happy, it’s mostly by your choice – and you’re the only one who has the power to change it.

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I am a greedy person. I always want to get more, to be more, to gain more. Sometimes I feel like I can't get through my own mind. I couldn't even understand myself. That's why I create ExtraordinarNee. To see through me, and to be seen... :)

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